Tuesday, 19 August 2014

What if someone's wearing the same dress as you?

Four years ago, I was in a restaurant and I saw a girl who was wearing the same dress that I was...we both sort of looked away a little embarrassed and pretended we didn't notice. Thankfully I had a blazer so I immediately put it on :) so that wasn't too bad :)

But I 've been to a formal black-tie event and also to a wedding where two guests were wearing the exact same dress...talk about awkward.

There is a chance that one day you'll show up to an event in the same dress as someone else. Well, ladies, what to do if it happens to you.
DON'T be embarrassed or worse be upset (and start giving her death stares!). Because that would only make you look foolish and b*tchy.






Rather than run away EMBRACE IT and use confidence to turn what could be deemed as an embarrassing situation into a celebration of your style!
You obviously have similar taste, why hate her?. If a guest says something obnoxious like, "What, are you two bridesmaids also?", don't comment. Just laugh it off. And if someone says, "You look better in it", you could respond with "You look gorgeous yourself!"




So, instead of getting upset and potentially ruining your night, you could ask to pose for a picture with your dress twin and say, "One thing is obvious, we definitely both have a good taste!" That would avoid all the awkwardness and you will certainly leave everyone with a good impression of you :)

Have you ever worn the same dress as another guest? Did anyone bring it up? So how do you feel about this? Are you flattered, or embarrassed, or annoyed? 



I would love to know what you think. Please leave me a comment below or if you wish you can also email me at annadizon.rr@gmail.com. I try to respond to every comment or question.


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Wednesday, 6 August 2014

My Summer 2014 Capsule Wardrobe update

I know you have seen me wearing with different clothes that were not in my Spring capsule wardrobe (especially on our holiday in Italy) but honestly I've not purchased anything nor added any extra to update my wardrobe.
It got really warm and I only swapped my two Gap sweaters, trench coat, my blazers, for tops and dresses.

Chelsea (London) photo by London Wedding Photographer MikiPhotography


Pull and Bear dress - LV totally bag - Burberry Aviator Sunglasses
Verona (Italy)

When we went on holiday to Italy and because of the hot weather I just brought out my shorts and pulled out old summer clothes lighter items suitable for the weather. This is a perfect example of how to edit your wardrobe when the weather changes. There is no strict rule!

Lake Garda
Habana linen dress ~ Mango cardigan 

Lake Garda
Banana Republic top (part of my spring capsule wardrobe) ~ Topshop denim shorts 

Lake Garda
Zara top ~ Topshop denim shorts ~ LK Bennett ballet shoes (part of my spring capsule wardrobe) 

Lake Garda
Zara top (part of my spring capsule wardrobe) ~ Abercrombie shorts
Many of you noticed and asked about the dress I was wearing when I went to the theatre. Yes, it was not in my Spring Capsule Wardrobe video because as I have said my spring 11 item wardrobe are my everyday (day wear) clothes and it does not include my evening wear, cocktail dress (for parties, weddings, formal occassions, etc).
So this Zara dress is part of my summer evening wear :)


Prince Edward Theatre - London
Zara dress ~ Hobbs blazer (part of my spring capsule wardrobe)

While my outfit on this wedding was a birthday gift from my wonderful husband.


London
LK Bennett top and skirt 
This is my summer capsule wardrobe but I will be attending another wedding in two weeks time and I might purchase a new dress:)

How about you? Have you updated your summer capsule wardrobe? 

I would love to know what you think. Please leave me a comment below or if you wish you can also email me at annadizon.rr@gmail.com. I try to respond to every comment or question.

See you next week! :)  xx

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